Things to talk about when dating
The best question I’ve found for finding out someone’s hobbies is: Some people say you shouldn’t talk about work. When you stop and listen to what people usually talk about, work and school are at the top of the list.
After all, people do spend several hours a day at these places.
Hobbies are things people do without being paid to, just because they enjoy them.
Some examples are: yoga, photography, working out, meditation, shopping, etc.
There’s always new ones coming out, so the topic never really gets stale. Everybody eats, and most people enjoy talking about their personal taste in food.
For example, if the topic of some new music trend comes up, you can mention what type of music you were into as a kid. Back when I had a hard time carrying conversations, I’d often desperately try to think of new random topics to talk about out out of thin air. instead try looking around you and pointing something out in the environment.
This will often naturally lead to other things you two can discuss.
And if you find that your conversations feel “boring”…
the problem here could be that you are simply exchanging facts with the other person.