Good opening line for online dating profile
Okay; so you’ve been browsing your matches online and you’ve come across someone who might be a possibility. How do you start the first message to what could be your soulmate in a way that engages and interests them without making you sound a bit odd? In his first message to me, my now fiancé complimented me on the use of an apostrophe in my profile (I’d talked about going to parents’ evening at school – sexy stuff.) To me though, someone who writes for a living, this was the ultimate in flattery and proved that he too knew his ‘their’ from his ‘they’re’. I appreciate that grammar may not be the way to everyone’s heart, so I’ve come up with a few ideas for the all-important first message.
They look normal in their profile pic and they’ve included the obligatory picture of them with friends on a skiing holiday. Honesty, adventure, Sunday lunches – tick, tick, tick. Be warned though; these are for guidance only and you’ll want to customize them – after all, you never know if your crush has read this post too…
Ignoring unsolicited dick pics and otherwise inappropriate behavior, online dating is nerve-wracking because, well, So we talked to Joshua Pompey, a matchmaker and founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking to learn how to craft the perfect profile.
"If you write your profile and create your photo gallery correctly, no one should wonder if they want to message you.
When I asked my office mate Paul for some ideas, he told me he once asked a girl the name of her first teddy bear and told her that he had a goat called Sammy. This one might be a bit of a cliché, but everyone likes to be told they look nice, don’t they?
’ If you want to keep things light-hearted, start with one of those questions that everyone has an opinion about.
’ Would you rather have the power to travel through time or the ability to read minds?
Or would you rather eat a whole jar of jam or drink three gallons of orange juice?
" Like, 'never let go, Jack; never let go of deeze! " Women, meanwhile, are 40% more likely to respond to messages about food.
When that finally works for you hold onto that person and never let go! For example, the response rate for men is 98% greater if you make a straightforward, assertive opening gambit like, "Come with me if you want to eat wings!