Dating a guy with a child
I’m a rational person, so I realize that a man’s children should and will come first.But this creates a conflict because a woman wants to feel secure and wanted in a relationship, but if she demands greater importance than his children, then she comes off as an insensitive bitch.I got an email from a reader the other day who found a great guy although she’s blind.I helped another client fall in love and have a baby even though she’s paralyzed from the waist down.
The man is great…consistent in how he treats me, loving, kind, and generous.
We can parse and say that it’s not someone’s “fault” for being depressed or having an autistic child.
But it doesn’t really change the gravity of the situation for the person who is taking on a loving person’s challenging situation.
I am currently in a relationship with a great man who has kids of his own.
My dilemma is that one of his children is special needs (autistic) and will likely never live independently, only possibly in a group home as a young adult in his 20s.